Community Guidelines

Welcome to the CarpeDM community! If you’re honest, kind and respectful to others, you’ll always be welcome here. If you choose not to be, you will be removed. Our goal is to allow users to express themselves freely as long as it does not offend others. Everyone is held to the same standard on CarpeDM. We’re asking you to be considerate, think before you act, and abide by our community guidelines both on and offline. You heard that right: your offline behavior can lead to termination of your CarpeDM account.


Below is a list of our community policies. If you violate any of these policies, you might be banned from CarpeDM. We take violations of our community standards seriously and will remove any users who are unable to respect others and act according to those standards. We encourage you to report any behavior that violates our policies, and read up on our Safety Tips.




Nudity/Sexual Content


The beauty of CarpeDM is its use of video chat to help users connect on a deeper level faster.  However, we recognize that some users may take advantage of this feature to subject others to unwanted content. Such conduct will not be tolerated.  Users must keep all content appropriate for public consumption. No nudity, no sexually explicit content, and don’t chronicle all of your sexual desires in your bio. Keep it clean.




Do not engage, or encourage others to engage, in any targeted abuse or harassment against any other user. This includes sending any unsolicited sexual content to your matches. Reports of stalking, threats, bullying, or intimidation, are taken very seriously.


Violence and Physical Harm


We do not tolerate violent, graphic, or gory content on CarpeDM, or any actions or content that advocate for or threaten violence of any sort, including threatening or promoting terrorism. Physical assault, coercion, and any acts of violence are strictly prohibited.


Content that advocates for or glorifies suicide or self-harm is also not allowed. In these situations, we may take a number of steps to assist the user, including reaching out with crisis resources.


Hate Speech


Any content that promotes, advocates for, or condones racism, bigotry, hatred, or violence against individuals or groups based on factors like (but not limited to) race, ethnicity, religious affiliation, disability, gender, age, national origin, sexual orientation, or gender identity is not allowed.


Private Information


Do not publicly broadcast any private information, yours or anyone else’s. This includes social security numbers, passports, passwords, financial information or unlisted contact information, such as phone numbers, email addresses, or home/work address.




With our innovative video chat feature, maintaining fake profiles will be difficult.  However, don’t be fake. Be real instead. Don’t use CarpeDM to drive people to external websites via a link or otherwise.


Promotion or Solicitation


Soliciting other users is prohibited on CarpeDM. It’s fine to invite your matches to something that you’re doing, but if the purpose of your profile is to advertise your event or business, non-profit, political campaign, contest, or to conduct research, we may delete your account. While we’re excited that you’re doing a comedy show next week, please don’t use CarpeDM to promote it.


Prostitution and Trafficking


Promoting or advocating for commercial sexual services, human trafficking or other non-consensual sexual acts is strictly prohibited and will result in your account being banned from CarpeDM.




CarpeDM has a zero-tolerance policy on predatory behavior of any kind. Anyone attempting to get other users’ private information for fraudulent or illegal activity may be banned. Any user caught sharing their own financial account information (PayPal, Venmo, etc.) for the purpose of receiving money from other users may also be banned from CarpeDM.




Be yourself! Don’t pretend to be someone else.


Do not impersonate, or otherwise misrepresent affiliation, connection or association with, any person or entity. This includes parody accounts. While we think your Mike Pence profile is hilarious, you aren’t Mike Pence. And if you are, what are you doing on CarpeDM?




You must be 18 years of age or older to use CarpeDM. As such, we do not allow images of unaccompanied minors. If you want to post photos of your children, please make sure that you are in the photo as well. If you see a profile that includes an unaccompanied minor, encourages harm to a minor, or depicts a minor in a sexual or suggestive way, please report it immediately.


Copyright and Trademark Infringement


If it is not yours, do not post it. If your CarpeDM profile includes any work that is copyrighted or trademarked by others, do not display it, unless you are allowed to do so.


Illegal Usage


Don’t use CarpeDM to do anything illegal. If it’s illegal IRL, it’s illegal on CarpeDM.


One Person, One Account


CarpeDM accounts cannot have multiple owners, so don’t create an account with your friend or significant other. Additionally, please don’t maintain multiple CarpeDM accounts.


Third Party Apps


The use of any apps created by anyone other than CarpeDM that claim to offer our service or unlock special CarpeDM features is not allowed.


Account Dormancy


CarpeDM is fun to use... all the time! Use CarpeDM at the lake, use CarpeDM while eating cake. Use CarpeDM when you’re out, use CarpeDM when in doubt! But, if you don’t log in to your CarpeDM account in 2 years, we may delete your account for inactivity.



On CarpeDM:


  • While browsing, expand the user’s profile and tap the “Report” button in the bottom corner to send us a quick, anonymous report.

  • From your matches or message screen, tap the user’s photo and the click “Report” button to send us a quick, anonymous report.

  • During a video call, end the call and tap the “Report” button on the pop-up menu.


Off CarpeDM:


If need be, contact local law enforcement, then contact us here




CarpeDM reserves the right to investigate and/or terminate your account without a refund of any purchases if you have misused the Service or behaved in a way that CarpeDM regards as inappropriate, unlawful, or in violation of the Terms of Use, including actions or communications that occur off the Service but involve users you meet through the Service.


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